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Don’t F*cking Kill Yourself: Suicide Prevention
A short but profound reflection on what it’s like to feel suicidal and work your way through these experiences. It is a mentoring, pep talk and writing peer support session
The title of Gareth Edwards’ book is controversial and a bit crude, but it summarizes two key ideas about how to live when life seems impossible.
First, the delay. Gareth shares his experience when he wanted to kill himself. One of the best things to do during this time is to delay acting on self-defeating feelings. Deciding to wait allows time to try other things and develop other feelings and thoughts. This book offers five steps to take when you find yourself in this space of procrastination, starting with simply being alive and feeling like you might want to live. Each step is illustrated by Gareth’s experience and some actions and thoughts that have worked for him.
Second, kill yourself. The choice of language is deliberate; Gareth avoids using the term “suicide” because his history is a legal and moral judgment on “deep and legitimate human experience”. The urge to kill oneself, he claims, is an almost universal human experience. Rather than being an indicator that you are sick or ill, it is part of being human, experiencing deep sadness and being aware of the uncertainty of life. Rejecting self-condemnation for such thoughts, he believes, is a useful step forward.
How Not To Kill Yourself By Clancy Martin: 9780593317051
This book is a short but profound reflection on what it can be like to feel suicidal and how to overcome that experience. It is a mentoring, pep talk and writing peer support session. Although this is a memoir of Gareth’s own life, it is based on his extensive work with others in and around the field of mental health support. He is careful not to assume he has all the answers, but is generous enough to share his ideas and experiences to suggest a way forward.
If you’re struggling with your own suicidal thoughts and feelings and you like Gareth’s approach, I’d recommend some other resources:
Disclaimer: Please note that these reviews are not endorsements or recommendations by the Mental Health Foundation. This feature presents resources that people interested in mental health and fitness may find useful. A revised collection of thirteen essays, six new for this edition and seven from the original, “a star in the American literary firmament whose voice is bold, honest, loving, and utterly beautiful” (NPR).
Smart and uncompromising, poignant and funny, How to Kill Yourself and Others Gently in America is a must read. This new version of award-winning author Casey Laman’s first documentary looks inward, drawing heavily on the experiences of the author and his family, while also exploring the worlds that shaped their lives—Mississippi, the South, the United States. From interviews with his mother to songs about Ole Miss football, the Outkasts, and black women’s work, these thirteen insightful essays highlight Laman’s deep love of language and his masterful transformation of his experiences to proclaim why he’s “just the one.” America’s most talented writer” (“New York” magazine).
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22 Americans have died from the coronavirus and Donald Trump tweeted: “At the White House, we have a well-coordinated and well-planned attack on the coronavirus.”
I heard from author, friend and scholar Joe Osmondson that I should not attend Writers Guild events, conferences that I would not be paid to attend, saying I was too tired. “The government is way behind on this,” Joe writes. “The experts in our community are the best of us. I’ve talked to a lot of friends who work on this and I have a lot of faith in them.”
“We’re not doing this for the ‘US,'” he replies. “The risk to you is still low, but it seems we owe it to our elderly and people with compromised immune systems.”
“Thanks for that,” I write back. “I stay at home and don’t go to other events as per my schedule.”
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These other programs are paid readings that I want to do in Ohio and West Virginia. I make most of my money at these events. The first show in Ohio is sold out, but I tell myself I’m sure they’ll push it to the 10th. I assume the same for West Virginia.
And/however/but/one day I walk into a casino in Tunica, Mississippi, one of the poorest counties in the United States, and wash my hands with hand sanitizer.
31 Americans have died from the coronavirus, and after a meeting with Republican leaders, Donald Trump said: “That’s about twenty-six deaths in our country. And if we had not acted quickly, this number would have been much higher.
These paid events I plan to attend have not been canceled yet. Grandma, who earns most of the money I earn from these trips, took a year working on a chicken farm to earn the money that was waiting for me for these two events.
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Grandma is one of the parents that Joe was talking about. She is a ninety-year-old black woman from Mississippi with a compromised immune system. She believes that she is still alive because of hard work and Jesus Christ.
My agency told people in Cincinnati that under no circumstances would I be signing books or shaking hands at the event.
I’m signing books that evening. I shake hands. I hug people. I feel love I wash my hands with disinfectant. A rich man in the west gave me a ticket to meet Lauryn Gill in Cincinnati. I tell the event organizers that I’d rather go to the Lauryn Hill show than go to dinner.
I congratulate myself for missing both and caring for the elderly and people like my grandmother with compromised immune systems.
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